How does one go about the forming of a habit both in ourselves and our children? Start with focusing on only one thing that you desire to change. In a famous article published in 1983, Anya Bateman tells how she changed her life by focusing on only one thing she wanted to change and then doing it for 21 days. For some of the habits she was trying to form, she kept a journal of her thoughts and excuses and anything else that came up that made her not want to keep her agreement with herself. While working on forming a habit, we must be ever careful not to let ourselves or our children fail in the keeping of them. We must be vigilant. I know this firsthand. …
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Habit Training in Ourselves and Our Children – Part II
Habit Training for Ourselves and Our Children – Part I
Habits. When I think about them I usually am reminded of all the things I do that I don’t want to do and of course there are all the things that I want to do that I don’t do, like exercise (groan), eating less sweets and saying positive things to those around me. But I have also seen the benefit of good habits in my life. Habits that were instilled in me as a child. They are such a part of me that I don’t have to think, I just do. It requires no mental effort on my part because they are so engrained in my brain to do such and such. We all have those kinds of habits. If we had to think about everything we did and…
World War I Co-op Speech Day – Part II
We’re home from a lovely Thanksgiving in Pennsylvania with family. So I need to finish telling you about our World War I homeschool day. In my last post on our WWI speech day, I mentioned some of the speeches that were given. (The Sinking of the Lusitania, Donuts, Sgt. York, Army Nurses, Life in the Trenches, War Dogs and Cher-Ami the carrier pigeon. After the aforementioned speeches, we heard about The Forgotten Warriors (war horses), and then Wesley came and told us about Air Warfare and specifically Frank Luke. I found this to be an interesting point he brought out in his speech; although there are always conflicting numbers, the average number of days a pilot lived was 8 days with only 18 hours of active…
Our World War I Co-op Speech Day – Part I
I have learned that… morning functions are a bit challenging.(cough, cough) Our World War I speech co-op day was held Saturday with guests arriving at 10:30a.m. so that we could begin at 11a.m., the time the war ended. But because of the challenge of morning functions, we officially started about 11:15 with the shooting of our cannon and 30 seconds of silence. We had a really good day, the event was smaller than some of our others have been but for some reason I enjoyed it so much. Headquarters was in a canvas wall tent with a wood burning stove to keep us toasty or hot as some probably were. It was a perfect setting. I had a drink station set up outside the tent…
Preparing for our Speech Day on World War I
Ready or not, our homeschool speech co-op day is happening Saturday. They have been so much fun in the past and the kids have a lot of great memories from these days. Medieval Times was a favorite but so was Under the Sea & Pioneer Day, We’ve also done Democratic Republic of the Congo and Inventions. I think this must be our 6th time to have a homeschool speech co-op day. The point of our speech day is to teach our children public speaking skills but the bonuses are they get to learn about a subject in-depth (we hope), learn to write a speech and practice their public speaking skills all in a fun setting. We invite grandparents and others who we will feel are…
When Armistice Day Became Veteran’s Day
November 11, 1918 the Treaty of Versailles was signed at the Palace of Versailles in France ending World War I. The war ended on the eleventh day of the eleventh month at the eleventh hour (11 a.m.). In honor of the agreement signed, Armistice Day was established and celebrated each year. Woodrow Wilson, the president during World War I, said this when establishing Armistice Day. “To us in America, the reflections of Armistice Day will be filled with solemn pride in the heroism of those who died in the country’s service and with gratitude for the victory, both because of the thing from which it has freed us and because of the opportunity it has given America to show her sympathy with peace and justice in the councils…
Is Your Child Defective or is it Your Perspective?
The other day as I sat and listened to a mom talk about her child and his unique learning difficulties, I was shocked when she said that it had been suggested that her son had an evil spirit. Why? Because her son’s eyes would glaze over partway through the lesson. He would then disconnect with what she was trying to teach. In an effort to help her son learn, she discovered various methods for getting her son to open back up so that she could impart some other little tidbit of learning into him. Things such as tapping her fingers on the table or tapping him on the forehead. This boy to the outside world looked broken. He needed fixed and worst of all some…
A Look at Artist Appreciation at Our House
Did you all start school yet? Every year I make our homeschooling schedule and determine that we’re going to really stick to it this year. Then unexpected happenings occur and the schedule has to be thrown out. Over and over and over again. :) But even if I don’t stick to “the schedule” completely, I still find it useful. We homeschool year-round but I think it’s nice to have a definite day to say we’ve started. The kids look forward to the fresh beginning, too. Here are my students this year. and Wesley… It was a very hectic and busy week for me since I was a part of many of the subjects. We had Tuesday Tea (you can read here about our poetry tea’s). The kids…
Cantaloupes (or was that Antelopes?) and Early Childhood Education
Yesterday, I was cutting up a cantaloupe and Audrey says to me, “Does that come from an animal?” Thinking all along that she was just having fun, I responded, “No, it comes from the ground.” “What is it?” “It’s a melon.” As we continued to talk, it finally came out that she assumed I was cutting up a cantaloupe which she concluded was part of an antelope. Because I had never thought to explain where cantaloupe’s come from. Oh dear, there are gaps in our homeschooling! The greatest fear of a homeschooling mom. I was so very close to having one. Whew! Barely saved. My Audrey knows more about how goats, chickens, and puppies are born than how a cantaloupe grows. I know most parents would not panic over this conversation. Like you…
Why My Child is Not Comprehending What They’re Reading
Some kids have a harder time in school than others. If you’ve homeschooled more than one child, I’m sure you know this very well. And their struggles can be so different from the other one. I have one child that has difficulty with reading comprehension. I could see there were problems with understanding when they were younger but as they’ve grown older, it’s manifested itself more clearly. I made mistakes along the way and would say things like, “You’re not paying attention,” “How are you supposed to learn if you don’t pay attention?” This only damaged their confidence. I have been thinking about this comprehension problem for a while and have reflected that if something’s not getting through to the child, it’s the way it’s being…
How to Throw a Party in a Hotel Suite
Have you ever thrown a party in a hotel? I have given one about once every 2 years. You see, our homeschool convention is held in Phoenix and they also do a jr. high graduation ceremony on Friday night… usually. This year, the graduation was on a Saturday, so we had to throw our party on Friday night… in honor of Serenity. We rented a suite and then got bumped up (courtesy of the hotel) to a hospitality suite. It was lovely and nice and perfect for the occasion. But let me show you pictures, since that’s the best way to “tell” you. At home you do as much as possible. It’s not fun trying to do it in a hotel! About 2 hours before…
The Feeding of (Great) Ideas to Our Beloved Children
I had so many wonderful comments last post about our bird feeder. I loved the interaction. The general consensus about our “mystery bird” seems to be that it most definitely is a grosbeak because of its beak. That was people’s first clue on what family it was from. Then our ”twitchers” determined that it was a black-headed grosbeak. Now to be honest, when I look in my Birds of Arizona book, the bird doesn’t look quite like the one we have, but when I googled it, the black headed grosbeak images are the very same ones as my bird. Thanks so much everyone. It is so exciting to learn the names of the birds here in our backyard! If you want to be inspired, read the comments left on that post. …
Homeschooling the Young Child Who is Resistant
In response to my recent post titled Traditional Education – Is it Really the Best Way to Teach our Children?, Lily left a comment saying… “Very Interesting! I understand that all children are gifted in different areas, but for those who bulk at the basics at an early age, in spite of following Charlotte Mason style principles, what should one do? Should you keep trying different approaches, for example Dianne Craft’s techniques until something clicks? Up to this point, when one of my students has had difficulties, I have tried a dozen different curriculum choices, different learning style approaches, and lots of praying until I found something that worked or at least made it easier for the child. Is that the best approach?” I thought…
John Taylor Gatto’s Essay Published in the Wall Street Journal
Remember the post where I wrote about Mr. John Taylor Gatto? Mr. Gatto taught in the New York public school system for over 29 years before quitting. Following is the article John Gatto submitted to the Wall Street Journal titled “I Quit, I Think”. It was published in July, 1991 when Mr. Gatto finally did quit. One week after this article was printed, John Gatto had received invitations to speak at NASA Space Center, Nashville Center for the Arts, Apple Computer and many other prestigous places. You will find “I Quit, I Think” to be more food for thought as you go along in your homeschooling journey. Government schooling is the most radical adventure in history. It kills the family by monopolizing the best times…
Are You Schooling for the Masses or are You Schooling for Your Divinely Created, Uniquely Gifted Child?
I have been doing a lot of thinking lately about my approach to high school. I have 6 children with my first 3 being boys, one already graduated and my second having his graduation party in August. Zachary (my second son) changed all my thinking about high school when he began several years ago. You see, he wasn’t like my first son, Seth. Seth was very faithful and diligent in his bookwork – following conscientiously his mothers high school plan for him, graduating and then going on to enter college for almost a year and doing very well on his entrance exam as well as his classes. In short, he was a model student. Zachary, on the other hand, did not enjoy sitting at his desk for hours on…
WWI Study – High School Speech
We’ve started our WWI study in preparation for a group of us getting together in August (not sure about the date yet) for a speech day where each of the kids will give a speech on something they’ve been studying related to WWI. To begin Wesley’s study he is reading Lusitania by Diana Preston. For our high school students we have started steering them away from giving an informative speech and are asking them to experiment with new types of speeches. This year they can choose from the following: Special Occasion Speaking (SOS): SOS is an event where students prepare a humorous speech on a timely and relevant topic. This can be influenced through news, politics, current events, trends, and so on. It must be geared towards a…
Studying History Using Greenleaf Guide
In this review on Greenleaf Guide to Old Testament History, I talked about how Greenleaf has helped us tie the history of the Old Testament peoples together. This study has made us realize that the Biblical characters were very real and were involved in the real world and were not a people by themselves. Now please don’t get me wrong when I say that. I believe the Bible to be 100% true but reading the Bible as a part of history made the people come alive for me and my family. Other ways to enhance your study While I use Greenleaf for a guideline of what chapters to read, I also try and look for opportunities for a fun craft I could do along with out reading. (I have gotten away…
Recitation or Interpretive Reading
This post was originally written February 25, 2008. Recitation or Interpretive Reading achieves several things. It helps you to learn to read aloud with feeling and meaning, clarity and volume and to practice making good eye contact when speaking. Each term my children have one poet they study and each week they are given a new poem to practice. They are to read this poem aloud with feeling, practicing clarity as well. Then once a week we get together and have Poetry Tea. Julie at Brave Writer gave me this idea. I make a few snacks along with some tea, of course, and that’s it. It’s not fancy, although a few times I went out of my way to do something extra special. My kids enjoy it; they get to eat…
Part II – Starting to Homeschool Your Young Child?
In Part I of Starting to Homeschool Your Young Child, we discussed the negative effects of starting schoolwork too young and instead approaching learning in a more informal fashion. Today, I would like to offer you a few more ideas as to other ways a child can learn at this young age (3-6 years). These are only a few suggestions; there are probably many more out there and I’d love to hear your contributions. Children love to help their mommy’s when they are so very little. Do not discourage them. Yes, you could do the job faster and better than your small child but this is a tremendous learning time that pays big dividends for you in later years. Teach them to iron simple items like…
Part I – Starting to Homeschool Your Young Child?
Are you thinking to begin homeschooling your child and he/she is only 3 or 4? May I give you a few cautions and some suggestions? I have met many moms who believe they should start their child at age 3 or 4 because their child is READY. Their child already knows the alphabet and maybe can even count to 100. They are so smart. They are READY to learn. I agree that these children are ready to learn but not in the way most parents want to teach. In our society we have been trained to think the public way of education is the only way – sit at a desk and complete your work. So they purchase some cute little preschool program for their child and then require them…

