When Your Children Grow Up
Although there comes a time when you must release the arrows in your quiver, it’s still difficult when change comes to your family that you have nurtured and watched over for so many years.
My son Wesley, who is 19, embarked on his own adventure by deciding to go to Canada to work for a few months this summer. What a great opportunity for him to learn new skills and spend time with family. After the camp meeting, we had to say goodbye to him since he was going to be flying out of that area the next day and not traveling home with us.
Last hugs for his sister.
“I know you’ll be home soon, but we’re going to miss you!”
Things are a little different here at the homestead without Wesley.
No bigger boy to ask for help with the heavy jobs. It’s quieter and our table was just too big, so we removed a leaf.
And you know what that means… less food to prepare, less laundry. But I miss that boy.
Gone for 2 1/2 months to Canada learning construction skills, spending time with cousins and deepening friendships.
“But we can’t wait to see you again!”
“You’re missing out on some tasty baking from your sisters!”
“And your little brother is growing up so fast. -Driving already!” 😉
“And mom and dad want to give you a hug one more time and just talk.”
“We’ll always love you… to the moon and back… and are blessed to have you as our son.” xoxo
3 Comments
Courtney
Wow…I don’t even want to think of when my kiddos get to the age where they go on their own long distance adventures… =/
Joane
That made me cry
Lucille
Wish we could keep them forever! It’s exciting to watch them grow up and experience life that you try and prepare them for, but sad for us at the same time because we love and miss them at the same time. I always have to remind myself to put myself in their shoes and remember how awesome and fun life was, even though the responsibility also was a bit scary at times.