Lessons from a Termite & How to Eat a Frog
Did you know that in 1 year, more damage is caused by the lowly termite than hurricanes, floods, fires, earthquakes and tornadoes combined?
This seems inconceivable but it’s a proven fact.
How do these small insects do it?
By taking one bite at a time.
Have you heard of the book Eat that Frog by Brian Tracy?
The book is based on the thought that if the very first thing you do each morning is to eat a live frog, nothing worse can happen the rest of the day.
Ugh, yeah, I could probably agree with that.
Take a look at your To-do List. What on there is the very worst thing that you really don’t want to do?
That’s your frog.
And…. you must eat it – one bite at a time. 🙂
Termites cause all their damage by taking one bite at a time. If you want to achieve something, you must begin with that first bite and then take another one and another one till you have finished.
“If you want to make an easy job seem mighty hard, just keep putting off doing it.” ~Olin Miller
Isn’t this the truth? I cannot tell you how many times I avoided doing something when if I had just did it, it would have taken less energy than the avoiding.
Knowing you have a task to do and yet avoiding it is very draining. As Brian Tracy say’s, “If you eat that frog, it will give you energy and momentum for the rest of the day.”
“You cannot escape the responsibility of tomorrow by evading it today.” –Abraham Lincoln
Currently, I have a lot of frogs in my life.
Here’s my plan. I’m going to write all of them down. Right now.
I have many things I need to do but there are several I know I’m avoiding. Those are my “frogs”.
Okay, I did it.
Five frogs.
Ahem. That was the number 5. Now, I can’t eat all 5 in one day but I can start by taking that first bite.
Sometimes we can avoid a job because we’re truly not sure what to do next. My recommendation would be to decide what your “Next Action” is. What is the very next thing you need to do to move your task forward? Be very specific, not vague or general.
For instance, one of my frogs is to plan a breakfast menu for the month of March. I’ve been “wanting” to do this for over a week now but haven’t. Sure I’ve been busy but I know when I’m avoiding something, too. I need to figure out my Next Action (taken from David Allen’s book Getting Things Done). What is the very next thing I need to do? Is it printing off a calendar for me to write my menu onto, perusing the Web for new recipes or pulling my cookbooks off the shelves? See, it doesn’t have to be a big step but whichever one of these I choose will move my project forward.
After I complete my next step, I then need to decide once again what the Next Action will be. Pinpointing your next action is very important and actually aids you in the completion of it.
“If you haven’t identified the next physical action required to kick-start it, there will be a psychological gap every time you think about it even vaguely. You’ll tend to resist noticing it.” –David Allen
Why don’t we challenge ourselves today to take that first bite and eat our way to completion this week or at least as much as we are able.
“You may delay, but time will not.” ~Benjamin Franklin
10 Comments
Joane
Elisabeth, I marvel at your allegory! Blahch!!! If I thought of my procrastinated tasks as being a frog eaten by a termite, I don’t think I would EVER get to it. HAHAHAHA! Well, I guess that could go with what Dianna Craft says in her seminar, that if it’s got guts and blood and drama, it will be remembered better. I suppose so…
Elisabeth
I think you missed what I was saying. I didn’t say your frog would be eaten by a termite. I said YOU must eat it – one bite at a time. The point was that if you do the worst thing in your day FIRST, then you will have more energy to tackle the other tasks in your to-do list.
Joane
HAHAHA! Yes, I DID get it. I AM the termite eating the frog which is the uggu mugga tasks that I keep putting off – gotta take one bite at a time. 😀
Holly
Elizabeth, I read this same book not too long ago and enjoyed what it had to say. My mother-in-law then asked me what book I was currently reading, and she couldn’t quite get why I would pick a book that said “Eat That Frog.” 🙂
Anna
lol:) Love the way you’ve written this…I can just imagine trying to eat a frog. *Shudder*
Anway. On to brighter things…
I’ve been inspired to organize my “frogs”…thank you. Not sure what I’ll start on, but I’ll get busy on it. 😀
Lily
Thanks for the reminder! I’m on my way to eat my “frogs”.
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Michael
I wonder what would be my reaction for frogs as appetizer?
Lucille
I like that….I will remember that expression…eating a frog! Ha!
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